Aisha Saringe, the Kenyan model featured in Bien-Aimé Baraza’s music video I’ll Be Okay, has opened up about why she is not prioritising romantic relationships.
Saringe said the nature of her work could make dating difficult, especially for partners uncomfortable with revealing outfits in music videos.
“I don’t date because of the nature of my hustle; I don’t think someone would be comfortable seeing their girlfriend appearing on video in a bikini,” she explained.
Her remarks have drawn attention as the model adjusts to increased public recognition following her appearance in Bien’s song, released on October 9, 2026.
A Career Built Through Hustle
Saringe, popularly known as Miss Saringe, is a video model, presenter and cosmetologist who began working in music videos in 2020.
She grew up in Nairobi’s Kibera neighbourhood and has described her upbringing as challenging but formative. Before her latest breakthrough, she appeared in projects featuring Kenyan musicians, including Bahati and Benzema.
She also said she had worked on a music video involving Nigerian singer Burna Boy and British rapper Fredo. However, her role in I’ll Be Okay introduced her to a much wider audience.
Fame Brings Unwanted Attention
The increased visibility has also affected Saringe’s everyday life. She recently said she struggled to shop comfortably in Nairobi’s Central Business District because people recognised her from the video.
Some people reportedly refer to her as “dame wa Bien,” linking her to the singer despite her role being professional. Saringe has also revealed that more than 100 men sent her direct messages after the video attracted attention. She said some expressed romantic interest, while others made unusual requests or offers.
Politicians in Her DMs
Saringe has separately claimed that some politicians, including governors and Members of Parliament, have contacted her privately.
She said some messages included offers involving jobs, nominations and holidays. However, she did not publicly identify the individuals, and the claims have not been independently verified.
Her comments have sparked conversations about the contrast between some public figures’ conservative public image and their alleged private approaches.
Keeping Her Career First
For now, Saringe appears focused on building her profile and continuing her work in modelling and cosmetology. Her comments highlight the personal boundaries she associates with her career. They also reflect the pressures that can accompany sudden public attention.
Rather than changing her professional choices to meet a potential partner’s expectations, Saringe says the nature of her work influences her decision to stay single.
