A video of the late gospel singer Betty Bayo discussing the importance of raising children in a peaceful family environment has resurfaced amid a heated custody dispute over her two children.
The video has attracted renewed attention following a court ruling that reportedly granted Pastor Victor Kanyari custody of his children with Betty Bayo, 14-year-old Sky Victor and her younger brother, Danny.
The decision has sparked public debate after Sky made an emotional appeal during a Facebook Live session. She asked to remain with her stepfather, Hiram Gitau, popularly known as Tash, who raised the children alongside their mother.
Sky Makes Emotional Plea
Sky’s livestream drew widespread attention after she expressed strong opposition to moving into her biological father’s home.
In her emotional appeal, she said she wanted to remain in the home where she had lived with her late mother and Tash. She also expressed concern about her younger brother’s emotional well-being.
Sky appealed to Kenyans and President William Ruto to help the siblings remain in their familiar environment. Her statements have prompted renewed calls for the children’s wishes and welfare to receive careful consideration as the family navigates the custody dispute.
Betty Bayo’s Message Resurfaces
Against this background, Betty’s video about raising children in a peaceful home has resonated with many social media users.
The late singer’s message has prompted conversations about the importance of stability, love and a supportive family environment, particularly for children experiencing loss.
Betty died in November 2025, leaving behind Sky and Danny. Following her separation from Kanyari, she married Tash in 2021, and the children lived with the couple.
Since her death, the children’s care has become the subject of a public dispute involving their biological father and stepfather.
Tash and Kanyari’s Custody Dispute
Kanyari pursued legal custody of the children following Betty’s death. Reports published on October 27 and 28, 2026, said a court ruled in his favour.
Tash, who had been living with the children, has publicly expressed frustration over the decision. The dispute has drawn strong reactions from Kenyans, many of whom have questioned how the arrangement will affect the siblings.
However, public commentary does not determine the legal outcome. Any further proceedings or changes to the custody arrangement would depend on the court and relevant child-welfare authorities.
Children’s Welfare at the Centre
The dispute has renewed discussion about children’s rights, emotional well-being and the importance of stable caregiving after the loss of a parent.
Kenya’s Children Act places the best interests of the child at the centre of decisions affecting children. Their views may also be considered in an age-appropriate manner.
As the family faces this difficult period, Betty’s resurfaced message has become part of a wider conversation about the need to protect children from conflict and prioritise their emotional needs.
Ultimately, the focus remains on ensuring that Sky and Danny receive care, stability and support as they continue grieving their mother.
