Kenyan gospel singer Mercy Masika has defended her upcoming Becoming a Wife masterclass by reposting a supportive message from a follower amid growing criticism online.
The follower, Jasmine Kariuki, questioned why the programme had attracted so much controversy. She argued that women interested in marriage should have the freedom to seek guidance aligned with their values.
“Let the women who want to be wives, be wives. Let them honor, love and submit to their husbands. Let them be taught to do so,” Kariuki wrote.
Her message suggested that the masterclass might not appeal to everyone but could still benefit women seeking marriage mentorship.
Mercy Masika’s Masterclass Divides Opinion
Masika announced the seven-session programme to help women explore marriage through a Christian perspective. The masterclass is scheduled to run from November 21 to December 12, 2026. Lady Bishop Kathy Kiuna is among the announced speakers.
Masika presented the initiative as an opportunity for women who want to build marriages guided by biblical teachings. However, the announcement sparked debate on social media, with critics questioning why similar attention was not being given to men preparing for marriage.
Some women argued that marriage requires shared responsibility and that both partners need guidance on communication, respect and accountability. Others raised concerns about traditional gender roles and the pressure placed on women to make marriages succeed.
Supporters Defend Women’s Right to Learn
Kariuki’s message offered a different perspective, arguing that women should be allowed to choose the kind of guidance they want.
Supporters of the masterclass believe that marriage mentorship can benefit women who voluntarily seek it. They also argue that criticism of the programme should not prevent others from accessing advice that aligns with their faith and personal goals.
The debate has therefore extended beyond the course itself to questions about choice, religious values and expectations within marriage.
Calls for Equal Marriage Preparation
The controversy has also prompted calls for similar programmes aimed at men. DJ Xclusive entered the discussion on October 26, 2026, when he announced a husband-focused initiative in an Instagram post.
He said men also needed opportunities to learn about marriage and encouraged them to express interest through direct messages.
His response added another dimension to the discussion about whether marriage preparation should address both partners.
As the debate continues, the two conversations highlight differing views on marriage mentorship. Some welcome specialised guidance, while others want equal attention given to the responsibilities of husbands and wives.
