Kenyan media personality DJ Xclusive has weighed in on the debate surrounding gospel singer Mercy Masika’s Becoming A Wife Masterclass, saying men also need to become intentional about marriage.
In a statement addressing the ongoing conversations, DJ Xclusive supported the idea of marriage mentorship for both men and women. He argued that successful marriages require both partners to learn, grow and put in the work.
He also urged Kenyans to express their opinions without bullying or attacking people who share their knowledge and experiences.
DJ Xclusive Calls for Respect
DJ Xclusive acknowledged that many women have experienced difficulties in marriage and deserve to have their concerns heard.
However, he cautioned against using those experiences to tear down another woman who has chosen to offer marriage guidance.
“We can disagree without bullying, attacking or trying to silence someone,” he said.
He also encouraged Kenyans to celebrate people who make efforts to strengthen marriages rather than dismissing their initiatives.
Addressing Mercy Masika directly, DJ Xclusive thanked the gospel minister for what he described as a great initiative.
He added that marriage plays an important role in the family and that everyone has a responsibility to help make it work.
DJ Xclusive Invites Men to Join
The media personality also indicated plans to develop a husband-focused initiative for men who want to improve their marriages.
He invited men who desire to become better husbands to contact him through direct messages. He also welcomed women who would like to see their partners become more intentional about marriage.
“So, gentlemen, it’s our turn too!” he wrote.
The invitation suggests that DJ Xclusive wants to extend the marriage mentorship conversation beyond women and encourage men to take an active role.
Debate Over Marriage Mentorship Continues
Mercy Masika’s Becoming A Wife Masterclass sparked discussion about the expectations placed on women in marriage.
While some people welcomed the programme, others questioned why similar mentorship opportunities were not being directed towards men.
DJ Xclusive’s response has added another perspective to the debate by calling for mutual responsibility and respectful conversations.
His proposed initiative could offer men an opportunity to explore the responsibilities of marriage and the importance of personal growth.
Further details about the programme, including its official name, dates, curriculum and registration process, remain to be confirmed.
